So after I made my way around the club a big tall man walked in. He’s from new your and kinda reminded me of a more docile version of Jay Z. You actually never know what some people are into before you meet them. I did a couple of dances for him and he had some requests, but he would not touch me which I don’t mind, but I did notice. He also requested a certain dance style which I also didn’t mind. We made a little conversation about hanging out, but I didn’t know what he expected, because the universe and yall know that (say it with me) I DON’T HAVE SEX FOR MONEY. I have to make sure I know this more than anyone and make it very clear, because no man is turning down sex. Especially in a situation where they are paying to hang out with a stripper. The NO SEX has to be made gracefully clear and you decide what grace is for you. For me I just like to smile and tell them we’re hanging out for money and I don’t do anything else. They can’t make you have sex that’s obviously rape and you have to be smart enough to not just go off with any guy. So I told him we could go to dinner, but I wasn’t that hungry and he wasn’t either, but dinner was my best offer. He then said he didn’t expect sex, but there was something he wanted me to do and it had nothing to do with sex. He was very reluctant to tell me as well. He asked if I was ok with role play and I was like hmmmm what kind of role play? Then I said what kind of role play and he said dominant and submissive role play. I told him yeah that was fine, but I am not a submissive in this type of relationship. He said of course and then he asked if I was comfortable spitting on him and I didn’t think it sounded that bad so I said yeah, them he asked if I would talk really mean to him and I agreed to do that, because I already do that to most of the men I know in real life to an extent. And the extent is when they do what I say I stop being mean for a while. Anyway fast forward to us being at his house which is an apartment he just moved into with his 20 year old son who was sleeping across the apartment. He didn’t have a bed in there which was fine with me, because I tried to be courteous and take a nap at this customer’s house ….. oh hell no. Never again. Matter fact never spend the night over a man’s house that keeps pressuring you to have sex, because if you didn’t want to have sex you may end up having sex. Just bein honest. If you’re dancing and you are with a customer always have your phone charged and your phone charger so you can call an uber on the spot. I literally had to order an uber last week and my phone was on 1% . I was overly grateful for that uber, because the man had the nerve to ask for the money back… yeah right! I got tf up and went outside to wait on my uber. That was after I made this guy pay me a couple hundred bucks and feed me. He was complaining about how he had a baby on a break from the love of his life and how he was love sick and all that. Now why would I have a sex with a man who has all this baggage going on and he’s white so that’s not my lane at all. But anyway back to the man that paid me to spit and step on him. So we got to hi’s apartment and he spread a sheet on the floor and laid on it with his clothes on. He looked like a big baby and he has to be 250+lbs and at least 6’0 tall. I requested I spit on him so I did and he also wanted me to spit in his face, on his clothes, step on him, put my feet on his face, and talk down to him. He was asking me leading questions like am I better than him, because he likes that. I’m not gonna lie I kinda needed a little power trip especially since I have no control over my adviser. I actually have lots of control over the men in the strip club, but that’s not real life. I’m constantly thinking of intellectual things mixed with sexual things abut my adviser lol. I’m always amazed at how I manage to pick out the right people to get money from. AlI know is that when you come prepared and focused nothing can stop you.

We did that for an hour then I called an uber and left. I will admit that you have to have the kind of personality to take control the way these men like and these men pay lots of money to be dominated. Its a great way to make money and not dance. I saw a dominatrix on Tyra Banks show and idk why Tyra Banks was shunning her so much. The woman was basically an actress she wasn’t a sex worker in my opinion. I honestly feel like people throw the term sex worker around too loosely. In my opinion stripping is not sex work, because I don’t have sex. A prostitute is a sex worker and a prostitute can be a stripper, but all strippers aren’t prostitutes. I actually feel like the route I take is smarter no matter what people say about what I do I  keep all of my clothes on and when i take them off its just so the men can LOOK! Not engage in. I have strict rules and those rule have made me lots of money. I see some white girls in my club giving $50 blow jobs and I literally can’t wrap my head around that one. $50 sounds like a tip to me, not payment for a blowjob.

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