As you all know I am a major advocate for online passive money it s not something that happens over night. It takes time to learn how to work these programs and experience. People mistake consistent passive income for easy income and there is no such thing. They see the money coming in with little effort and want to know all the secret free you worked so hard for. Any entrepreneur knows the key to making money is a formula and no two formulas are the same and will work for everyone. That is why you have stores that are similar, but not the exact same.
I say this to say the more you learn the and earn the more wealthy you will become whether you choose to translate that into dollars or not. The ability is there and do not sell yourself short thinking your abilities are not of use. Believe me there is some vulture somewhere waiting for you to devalue yourself so they can use your secret sauce for their own gain. Be very careful of close friends, family members and co workers in this aspect. They will hear all of your ideas and get the idea that of you can do it they can too not taking into account that they are actually stealing from you and its up to you to protect your property. What you don’t value someone else will. The quote I have been using lately is “The grass is not greener on the other side the grass is green where you water it”. This is something people do not realize for themselves so this is why it is so easy for them to steal from you even if they don’t consider it stealing. Even if you don’t consider it stealing.
The moral of this blog post is do not let these fly by night acquaintances enjoy the benefits of you work ethic and creative talent if they had no part in helping you get to where you are. Now I see why other celebrities date other celebrities. There are some cool regular people, but be careful of the vultures that did not believe in you and now feel entitled to some of your benefits and earning simply because they hung onto to coat tail like a parasite for all these years waiting to feed off of your efforts knowing the did nothing to add to the growth of you.
I’ve been feeling this way because the man I was dating for the past few years is something like this. I had to star being majorly secretive with him, because I noticed he enjoyed my intellect and fresh spirit for growth, but he did nothing to aide this growth. No monetary help and no real moral support either. Its been a few years since I chose to be secretive wit him and now he is expressing his feeling of not knowing me and this was purposeful for me. I knew what I was doing by secretly making moves. As much as I liked him I was not about to allow someone to enjoy my growth that did not contribute to my growth. Sadly same goes for my family. When I have exciting things happening in my family I am not so quick to share with them either, because I cam to realize they were holding me back with every conversation I had with them. Having somebody to share success with is very special, but it is very important to also know who not to celebrate success with. Its fine to converse cordially with some people, but allowing them to reap the benefits of something they did not support is something that could actually set you back many steps. I have chosen to express my love for people who express their love and appreciation for me which is why O love my readers and viewers so much. You guys love me enough to enrich yourselves with this information I choose to gracefully share and not devalue me while trying to feed off of me like a vulture. Sadly this is what people close to you will do so remember! Do not allow people to enjoy resources you with you that you built ALONE!
So you guys know I have been desperately trying to avoid my crush while also maintaining a normal subscriber relationship, but since I also create videos he gets to see me which is what fuels his crush (I’m thinking). So I love when he is on live and he has many many fans, but only a few that create videos I think.
Ugh he entered my DM’s one day last week and yes i was elated, but I had to politely decline and tell him that I was still a fan lol. Omg why do I have to reject someone that I want!? I just don’t even want to be the demise of someone’s relationship for my own personal pleasure and let be honest he’ll probably tell me whatever I want to hear to get what he wants. More over I’ll never know the real ins and out of his relationship and i could be walking into a world of trouble. I’ve been in those situations before and I hope I’ve learned my lesson. Bottom line what is for me is for me and what is for someone else is for that person. When you think you have all the power to have what someone else has worked for you will also be in a world of trouble no matter how much pleasure you think it will or is bringing you.
Like I said earlier I love the thought of him and I could just sit around all day thinking about him, but thoughts and actions are totally different things. The action of him should not happen and i think I made him feel bad by telling him I would not entertain him, but oh well his girlfriend wouldn’t want me all in his head making him think I’m just so awesome. Even tho I know I am awesome it would still be wrong to present myself in a loose fashion. Even discussing a liking for him is dangerous. He could be bored in his relationship and open to interacting with women and I don’t want to be one of those “how you get em is how you lose em” women even tho that could go in an way.
So he basically did a live stream, put my screen name and heart eyes by it as the title for his live stream. he clearly likes me and he says its because of how I look and who I look like, but I call bs on that. I don’t think someone would contact someone just because of how they look. That certainly isn’t what attracted me to him, but men and women are different. He is very attractive to me, but it isn’t his looks that I like since looks obviously fade.
Ultimately I’m backing down, but not out. Maybe I’ll stop commenting on his videos all together even tho I don’t think that is necessary. I also enjoy when he enjoys my videos, because I just do what I want to do and I appreciate people who appreciate my creativity.
What’s up you guys I’ve actually started many posts that I haven’t published and my draft box has over 100 drafts in it as well, but I was feeling like posting anything on those topics since I was celebrating my birthday. I’ve been doing great just enjoying my summer. So my birthday was on May 27th and I went to Mexico for 5 days and it was amazing. I 100% enjoyed myself and it was my most amazing birthday to date. I’m going to celebrate this way in a different or favorite place every single year of my life and I’m never going to let anything or anyone stop me from being happy and celebrating my birthday the way I want especially if I’m going to have to pay for everything anyway. Last year I celebrated with my family and ended up paying for everything and not having a good time at all. I would have been better off just celebrating by myself. I enjoyed this year tho and it was a great start to my summer.
Since summer has started I’ve been able to work more and have a little bit more spare time, but I’m going to prepare to start school again pretty soon, because I want to be prepared. I need to do some paper work, register for classes and I’ll be set. Then I;m going to make my rent money for every month I will be in school because I don’t like to work that much when I’m in school because its very stressful to have test, quizzes, homework, papers and projects due while juggling bills and rent. That is very stressful especially with no help.
I told the guy I was dating to move on because he’s mediocre and inadequate and I don’t wish to live that way. I don’t know what kind of almost 42 year old man thinks he can date a young woman and not help her. He can take that ideology to someone else, because I don’t have time for that. Right now if the person that wants to date me can’t help me or doesn’t want to help me then we can’t date, because I need a lot of help especially from a 42 year old man who claims to be interested in me. You can’t be that interested if you don’t care about my livelihood as a young 25 year old woman. So with that being said I have a very full summer ahead of me. I’m excited to plan my life how I want it and get better at managing my time. I had a great semester last semester, but this semester will only be better! It makes me so happy to think of all the stress I am saving myself by planning ahead and using this time I have now to the fullest. I will thank, hug and kiss myself in the future months to come for all of the preparation I am doing.